What To Do Instead Of Making A New Years Resolution

by Steve Borek | Dec 28, 2015 | Goal Setting | 0 comments

Another year is coming to a close. Man how time flies. I hope you had a fantabulous year with lots of success!

I was thinking of writing another post why I don’t believe it’s a good idea to make New Years resolutions.

Instead, this week I’m going to kick back and relax, reminisce on the last 12 months, and visualize where I’d like to be this time next year.

In the meantime, here are the four New Years resolutions posts I’ve written over the last four December’s. Hopefully you’ll find a golden nugget in this group of essays:

Thanks, God Bless, and Happy New Year.

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I succeeded by saying what everyone else is thinking. ~Joan Rivers >>>What do you really want to say?

Does your business need buffing? Where would you begin first?

Be intentional about who you want to become.

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Would you like a different outcome? Let’s board a new train with fresh useful baggage.

Success is inevitable when the plan aligns with your who.

Complacency is death.

You’ll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him. ~ Lou Holtz Translation? Let it go. You’ll feel lighter a lot quicker.

Being authentic requires courage. Been there. I have the T-shirt.

Everyone has dormant potential. They just don’t see it. This is where I come in.

Take a look at your performance over the last month, quarter, year, etc. Where ever you land on the scale is a direct result of your thoughts. Change your thoughts and you’ll change your performance.

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming Wow! What a Ride!” ~ Hunter S. Thompson

The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions. ~Confucius >>> Actions speak louder than words. Easier said than done.

Stop shoulding all over yourself.

The hardest part is taking the first step. Then taking another and another. Each successive step is easier than the previous one.

Is your glass half empty or half full? Whatever your answer, put it all in a bigger glass! 🙂

What do you want more than anything else? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to get it?

You can never be ready. There’s way too much information to know.

Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else. ~ Margaret Mead >>> Show the world who you are.

The short way is the long way and the long way is the short way.

Acknowledgements are gifts. How many gifts will you give today?

The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken. ~ Samuel Johnson >>> What new habits are a permanent part of you?

If you’re not growing you’re wasting away.

People don’t resist change. They resist being changed. ~ Peter Senge >>> People also resist the work required to change.

A coach is the mirror to your blind spots.

Waiting for everything to be perfect is paralysis through analysis.

Pick the day. Enjoy it – to the hilt. The day as it comes. People as they come… The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present – and I don’t want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future.

“People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.” ~George Bernard Shaw

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart. ~Helen Keller >>> Feelings is where it’s at.

“The only way around is through.” ~ Robert Frost >>> Does it feel scary? Great. Watch what happens when you get to the other side of fear.

The wider the gap between who you are and who you want to truly become, the more unhappy you’ll be.

Why not you? Huh?

What’s the story you’re telling yourself? Are you describing your past or present or feeding yourself a script that will change your future?

Your intuition and your intellect should be working together… making love. That’s how it works best. ~ Madeleine L’Engle >>> When was the last time your intuition and intellect had a loving moment?

The brain is neuroplastic and has the ability to change. Coaching really helps in this regard.

Be real. There’s a reason Brad Pitt gets huge bank to be someone else. It’s hard to do. Just be yourself.

Where is your focus? For most it’s on what they don’t want. Where your focus lands, is where your focus expands.

Are you paralyzed with fear? That’s a good sign. Fear is good. Like self-doubt, fear is an indicator. Fear tells us what we have to do. Remember our rule of thumb: The more scared we are of a work or calling, the more sure we can be that we have to do it. ~ Steven Pressfield >>> Like the time I danced the runway in front of hundreds of strangers to raise money for charity. Scary! But I did it!

“Too often, we put up with mediocrity, telling ourselves that later in life we’ll do what we want.” ~ Daniel >>> Most people land on the island of mediocrity. Ho hum.

If it looks good, you’ll see it. If it sounds good, you’ll hear it. If it’s marketed right, you’ll buy it. But… If it’s real… you’ll feel it. ~ Kid Rock >>>
I’ve never sold a single coaching engagement. The prospective client enthusiastically enrolls because I’m real and they feel it.

“The ability to learn faster than your competitors may be your only sustainable competitive advantage.” ~ Arie de Geus >>> The competition isn’t standing still. What are you learning?

Be patient when it seems things are not going right and may never be right again. Accept that what is yours will come to you in the right way at just the right time. ~ Iyanla Vanzant >>> Ya gotta believe!

Great leaders inspire a shared vision.

Everything you want or who you desire to become begins with a choice.

Shine the spotlight on your team while applauding in the wings. Humility is the sign of a great leader.

What’s the story you’re telling yourself? Don’t like your results? Change your story.

And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure that the storm is really over. But one thing is certain, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm is all about. ~ Haruki Murakami

I’m convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance. ~Steve Jobs >>> Consistent action is the key.

Failing is the price you pay to enter the discovery room.

To get great answers, ask great questions.

“If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to man as it is, Infinite. For man has closed himself up, till he sees all things thro’ narrow chinks of his cavern.” ~ William Blake

71% of the workforce are disengaged with their jobs. I partner with these people to find a job, career, or transition to a new business that pays the light bill and lights them up.

Where there’s smoke, there’s fire. What signs are you ignoring that can potentially cook your business like a charred hot dog? p.s. I put mustard on my hot dog. Ketchup? Sacrilegious. ;-p

“The voice of our original self is often muffled, overwhelmed, even strangled, by the voices of other people’s expectations.” ~ Julia Cameron >>> As their coach, I get my client to love their authentic self.

All things are difficult before they are easy. ~ John Norley >>> When I struggle with something new I simply think I’m learning something new. This one thought changes my entire view of what I’m going through.

“Loosen up; you’re not going to convince them anyway. Speeches aren’t about turning archenemies into cheering supporters. Presentations are mainly opportunities to reassure those who already agree with you that you’re a horse worth betting on” ~Tom Peters

What if your customer could look inside your business. What would they see?

No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person feel important ~ Mary Kay Ash >>> Ahem. Stop looking at your electronic device.

“The ability to learn faster than your competitors may be your only sustainable competitive advantage.” ~ Arie de Geus >>> The competition isn’t standing still. What are you learning?

A river never pushes. It flows in a natural direction. Effortlessly. Where are you pushing? What needs to happen for you to flow?

OK, keep thinking about it. At some point, you or your idea will become irrelevant.

A trained coach helps the client uncover and own the new direction. The new place is in the clients bones. They just can’t see it. A coach really helps.

Nothing gets me more pumped than giving oxygen to my client’s dormant potential.

Life is to be lived. ~ Katharine Hepburn >>> Are you living or simply surviving?

In what way are you different from one year ago?

“In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.” ~ Coco Chanel >>> Average is over. Set yourself apart so people notice. Otherwise you’ll blend with the masses in the land of mediocrity.

A coach helps you to get where you want to go, faster. The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions. ~Confucius >>> Actions speak louder than words. Easier said than done.

Meditation relaxes the mind. Until a few years ago I wasn’t a fan. Jerry Seinfeld practices Transcendental Meditation twice a day. He says it’s like your phone charger. TM gives him energy.

Saying things will eventually get better is a hope strategy. How’s that workin for ya?

“Magic happens when you tell the Universe what you want it to do for you. Miracles happen when you ask how you can be of service to the Universe.” ~ Marianne Williamson >>> Too woo woo for you? I once thought the same. No longer. Try a sip of the Woo Woo Kool-Aid. No need to gulp.

Walk to the edge. Listen Hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regrets. Appreciate your friends. Continue to learn. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher >>> Consistently doing just one would be an achievement for many.

Accept where you are at this moment. Don’t make it better nor worse. Just be honest with yourself.

When’s the last time you did something that scared you?

So many books, so little time.

To be a real entrepreneur you always have to be looking forward. The moment you rest on your laurels is the moment your competition overtakes you. ~ Richard Branson >>> Most biz owners do enough to stay afloat.

“Do not grow old, no matter how long you live. Never cease to stand like curious children before the Great Mystery into which we were born.” ~ Albert Einstein >>> Be more childlike; in a state of curiosity.

One small crack does not mean that you are broken….it means that you were put to the test and you didn’t fall apart. ~ Linda Poindexter >>> Just keep moving.

I admire a person who’s willing to do whatever’s necessary. ~Jack Sparrow >>> Are you willing?

What’s your endgame? Schedule a free complimentary session. Free means no strings attached. I won’t try to sell you a thing. Click on the Free Strategy Session tab above to get yours.

“When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something’s suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful…“ Billie Mobayed

What’s your life been about? Personally? Professionally?

Try to be like the turtle – at ease in your own shell. ~ Bill Copeland >>> No fanfare needed. Just be yourself.

Hopefully your professional career pays the light bill. Is it lighting you up? If yes, you’re part of the 29%. The majority, 71% of the workforce, are disengaged from their jobs. I can help you change that.

Goals help you create an unconscious strategy to move in the right direction.

They’ll never change! You’ve heard this or even said it to someone else. I’m in the *People * Can * Change * Business.* I see transformations happen all the time.

What’s holding you back?

You lost the deal, client, job, etc. Feeling bummed about it? Don’t waddle in the muddle too long. Otherwise, you risk not seeing the next opportunity.

Keep on keepin on. You’re almost there.

As I pulled into the environs of Asheville, I saw a homeless person standing on a corner, holding his proverbial cardboard sign. It read, I’m dreaming of a cheeseburger. I’ve never seen a more innovative message from a floater. This man has dormant potential. Anyone that creative has the ability to turn things around. I hope he does.

Whatever makes you weird, is probably your greatest asset. ~ ~Joss Whedon >>> What’s your weirdness? 🙂

Desperation can cloud your thinking process. A coach can see what you can’t or aren’t willing to see.

Leaders are always being watched.

Change is one step away if you’re willing.

I wasn’t poor back then, I just didn’t have any money. Mary Carillo’s commencement address, to the Elon graduating class of 2014. >>> It’s all a matter of perspective.

Take a look at how you run your business, your life. What are you modeling for your kids? My Ahha moment during an interview with a client.

I help clients stretch their minds and go to places they’ve never been. Once they expand their surroundings, reverting back to their outdated environment is never an option.

If you’re not having fun, you’re doing something wrong. ~ Groucho Marx >>> Every day I make someone laugh. It’s who I am. My oxygen. Hearing others laugh and smile gives me life.

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” ~ Paulo Coelho >>> What you want is on the other side of the fear wall.

To crush your endgame you’ve got to be willing to commit. There is no Plan B.

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